Before that episode Glee was a show about a mythical school where people were courageous, and fought for each other, and no one was excluded. It was a show where you could watch football players dance to Beyoncé and imagine that homophobia and gender discrimination were in their death throes. That in fact YOU WERE MAKING THE WORLD A BETTER PLACE FOR WATCHING IT. Just by watching a show about attractive people singing show tunes and talking about gay rights, you were being a part of the solution.

If you thought that about Glee, it was your own damn problem. Really, must everything conform to overthrowing the oppressive white male heteronormative patriarchy these days?

I thought what made that scene in "Theatricality" awesome was that Kurt and [redacted] were both in the wrong, and both somewhat right, and to some extent so was Kurt's dad. Finn had plainly been pushed far past the breaking point there, and was fairly sympathetic until using the f-word; Kurt was just plain creepy.

Also, all the characters, male and female, tend to be crazy or evil. The only characters that have shown personality without severe personality defects so far are Kurt's dad and Becky, the Down's Syndrome cheerleader. Finn is usually a stupid weenie with a temper, Kurt's gone from admirable gay kid to flaming jealous stalker, Puck's...well, Puck, Jesse ended up a scheming asshole, and even Artie's been fairly nasty at times (in the Madonna episode).

Pretty much every character on the show is portrayed in some shade of gray, and that's a good thing. We don't need every character to wear a white or black hat, and we don't need every scene to show either perfect sensitivity or the downfall of those who fail at perfect sensitivity.