How soon is too soon to declare someone dead? The girl next door and I had a music blasting fight (actually, maybe that was just me blasting mine to ignore hers) on Friday and then she up and vanished.The garbage bags are still hanging on her door handle (everyone else has put theirs inside), and I've not seen her since (or heard her). The bathroom's locked, too, all the time, and no one's in there. I called maintenance about it. Is it too alarmist to assume she's died in there/killed herself? That's the best I could come up with....